Wednesday, March 4, 2009

Not what we hoped for but all is not lost

Well, we met with the oncologist right after the tumor board today and the news was not great, in fact just the opposite. The type of tumor Ben has is an Atypical Territorial Rhabdoid Tumor (ATPT) type cancer.

Now I will try to remember everything so it may be a little sketchy. The tumor is very aggressive. We need to begin chemotherapy next week. We have a number of options to consider at this point and are not 100% on everything but this is kind of the tentative direction. Monday or Tuesday Ben would get his Hickman Cathater. Through this they will administer chemo, extract stem cells (part of the therapy -- kind of a modified bone marrow transplant procedure), administer meds, etc. By the end of the week he would begin his treatments.

Ben would do 5 to 7 days of treatment, then be off for 2-3 weeks with close monitoring for side effects. After 2 rounds we will probably need to go to Boston or Houston for a new radiation therapy called Proton beam therapy. It all sounds very "Trekkie" doesn't it. He would receive one radiation treatmene a day for 6 weeks ~ish.

Then he would come back to Seattle for the remaining 3 rounds of chemo. The whole thing will take 6 or so months. With this type of chemo the odds are not great -- 30-50% survival. He has some good things in his corner like his age, placement of the tumor, and the way he has been recovering. The center here in Seattle is world renowned for cancer treatment and in fact we have a new treatment trial available to participate in as well. We will know after the first two rounds of chemo how he is taking to the treatment and whether we will need to go to Boston or Houston or just to go home and enjoy the time we have together as a family.

We have TONS of decisions to make at this point and like I said, still finalizing things. Your continued prayers are very much appreciated.

12 comments:

  1. My thoughts are with you during this time...decisions, decisions - I have been rallying everyone around to send good thoughts and prayers your way. Together you will make it through this tough time. -Barbara

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  2. Well, if you come to Houston, we'll leave the light on for you! Of course we are biased but we think the world of MD Anderson Cancer Center.

    Sending more prayers your way.

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  3. I don't think that we have stopped praying. We will continue to pray and have faith that Ben will be able to fight this! He has an incredible amount of stregnth. We all know that he can do this!!!

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  4. Our continued faith and prayers go with you as you make difficult decisions and find courage to move forward. Hugs and kisses to you all.
    The Mousleys

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  5. We miss you! Our thoughts and prayers are with you always. Let us know what we can do to help with the family up here. We love them all! Give each other hugs and kisses for us!

    Karen, Shane, Scotty, Sarah

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  6. John and family --

    My thoughts and prayers are with you all. This is not an easy time for you and God will lead you through this.

    Call (425) 967-3831) if there is anything I can help you with while you are here.

    Colleen

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  7. I posted last night, but I guess it didn't work. So here goes, again!

    I continue to pray & may fast again on Sunday. I have faith that Heavenly Father know best & am soooo grateful that families are forever! That, of course, doesn't stop the pain. I love you & miss you. My heart is breaking for you.

    All my love...
    Candice (Jared, Andrew, Devin, & Cedric all send their love & prayers, too)

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  8. We are praying for you to know the will of our Heavenly Father for your family. We know He will guide you and is right by your side (as we all wish we were)but, know that many thoughts and prayers are coming your way!
    Hirschi's

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  9. John,
    Mine and Sierra's thoughts and prayers are with you, Cari and Ben right now. Again, if you need anything feel free to contact me. I am here for you.

    Christy

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  10. We will continue to pray for your family. Thanks for keeping us posted on Ben's status. I'm guessing if anyone can beat this, it will be an Allred! Take care of each other,
    Love Brad & Jeni Wilson & family

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  11. John,

    I am sure I speak for many people from UAA when I say that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. If you need anything, please don't hesitate to ask.

    Christine Tullius

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  12. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your sweet family. The Lord will be with you. You guys are strong and will beat this!
    The McKinnons

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